Make a cassette tape of your and her favorite love songs, then record (in your voice) a special, romantic message at the end! Write her a poem (See our Romantic Poetry for inspiration) Leave little notes around telling her things you love about her. Let her rest her head in your lap.








Surprise him with a candle-lit dinner. Let her wear your clothes. It's almost guaranteed she'll look better in one of your button down shirts than you do.





(Kind of sexy too!) If she makes dinner, offer to do the dishes. Always be a gentleman--hold the door for her. Give her the same respect you enjoy from her. Make an effort to get to know (and if you can, love) her family.

Do something he would probably never expect - Send "Him" flowers! Spend intimate time with him. No television, no telephone, no computer, just you and him. Always respect him. Respect is one of the things men treasure the most in relationships.




Touch him affectionately: put your hand on the small of his back, run your fingers through his hair, using your fingertips, lightly trace the inside of his forearm. Tell him he is "handsome", "rugged", and "strong", try not to use "cute." Surprise him with a candle-lit dinner.











Tell him that you feel safe when you're in his arms. Encourage him in whatever he does--sports, work, whatever. Watch sports with him, even if it isn't your thing. Forgive him when he messes up.

Do something he would probably never expect - Send "Him" flowers! Spend intimate time with him. No television, no telephone, no computer, just you and him. Always respect him. Respect is one of the things men treasure the most in relationships. Touch him affectionately: put your hand on the small of his back, run your fingers through hair, using your, Tell him he is "handsome", "rugged", and "strong", try not to use "cute."

Surprise him with a candle-lit dinner.